Great Tips For An Awesome Relationship

Everyone desires to have an awesome relationship where they can be loved on and respected for the really are however this not the case in many relationships . Nowadays, relationships feel like a game and people are always anticipating the next move of their opponent and this eventually leads to dishonest and difficult relationships. If relationships are very important to us, then we should strive to be good at them.

Here are key dating tips and advice to make your relationship better:

1. Honor :

This is showing great respect of a person's worth. Many of us grow up not learning the act of honoring others around us and when we begin to date, we don't feel respected for we really are as this doesn't come easy. Honor is an important ingredient in a relationship and if it misses then the relationship begins to die. Today take the initiative to honor your loved one by complimenting their look, praying for them, speaking good of them in public.

2. Communication :

This is another key ingredient for your relationship. This should be effective for a quality relationship and is the most difficult because it needs work to perfect it. In other words it doesn't natural. There was a time in my relationship where i assumed that my boyfriend should know that calling me or texting me everyday meant alot to me. Unfortunately it didn't come naturally to him and because i didn't make it clear to him, i frustrated me. If one of you or both of you is weak at communicating this can really affect your relationship. You need to talk regularly about the things that go on in your life. This is key because it initiates an deep and intimate friendship between two people.

a) Also in the area of communication, one great goal is Honesty. We should be real and simplistic. We should remove any complications such as hidden agendas, manipulations, secrets because they make one wonder rather than moving forward. Being honest will enable one to speak the truth in hard situations. Truth and love need to be integrated to bring growth to a relationship. If any of these is missing then the relationship starts to dysfunction because people are not being honest. This eventually trains others to be dishonest with us and the cycle goes on but can stop if we could just be more honest with one another.

b) Another important goal in communication is clarity. This is mainly about what we communicate and how your communicate it. We communicate in many ways like through our words, actions, attitudes, even the tone of our voices. In other words we can communicate by what we do and don't do. To excel in this area we need to communicate clearly to others our feelings, your exceptions, their value, agreements. As we communicate clearly , we need to listen from the our loved one point of view. Immature people don't see things from another person point of view so they fail of understand to them and thus cannot communicate effectively. Mature people can see and act on behalf of the others. That is the difference. If something is misunderstood don't sit on it, ask for clarity in a respectful way.

3. Inner Circles of the Relationship :

Before you allow someone into your life they should earn a right to be in your inner circle. They earn that right by the way they treat you and how they live their life. For example Jesus: He loved 5000, worked with 70, spent personal time with 12 but was closest to James, John and Peter. People always make mistakes by allowing people into our inner circles who belong to the outer circles. This brings alot of misunderstandings and people feel violated.

Trust needs to earn and so letting in people in just because they want in or are pursing you is a terrible mistake.Trust is gained over time through respect for one another. People start dating and go to fast in about the next few weeks. You need to let them earn you trust first and that means taking things slow and studying them before you let them in your inner circle. Letting in someone just because you love them is not an important either. They need to earn you trust. Be willing to earn trust and let your relationship grow on a firm ground.

Live the kind of life that says, ?the closer they get to me ? the more they respect me.?

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